She definitely wants to go the Active Duty route. She has decided to decline the ECP offer and has been in touch with ROO's from her schools since she started this process. We have visited several schools already and spoken with the ROTC ROOs/PMS at several schools and she is also in routine contact with most of them via email updating them on what she is doing in school, her JROTC activities, sports etc and continuing to show interest in their program and her desire to be in ROTC. We have an overnight with Norwich next weekend and then head to NC the following week to tour both Campbell and ECU and have meetings set up with ROO's at both schools. We have Plan A, B and C and while getting a scholarship would make life so much easier, as well all know, we are actively working Plan B and discussing Plan C options.
Its sounds like you are guiding her well! We went through the same process with our daughter in 2015/2016. She was awarded a 3 year AD on the 3rd board. She had her plan B and Plan C outlined as well. However, that did not make the waiting easier! They were not offering the ECP as part of the national process at that time, so we did not have to cross that bridge. She is now a junior and loves her school and her ROTC experience. She just got back last night from her fall FTX (field training exercise), and she was exhausted but had a blast! She also kept in contact with her schools and found great advice and support from that during her senior year.
For anecdotal purposes, my daughter had a 3.50 gpa for purposes of her Army application, 26 super score ACT, two varsity letters, lots of outside of school sports and activities, and JV sports, volunteer hours and work. She did not have the JROTC or any club or school related leadership experience. Most of her leadership experience came from church leadership positions and just the nature of her jobs. She was definitely a similar candidate to your daughter, and there are so many things that we never know. What was the recommendation like from the PMS interview? What were the survey results? These are questions none of us can answer! Good luck to her and continue to keep us posted! Those of us who hang around after our kids already received their scholarships years ago, and some who have already commissioned, really like hearing about the journeys these kids go through on their path to commissioning and serving our country!