What I'm about to disclose may be surprising for some because I'm also one of the many who has heard of this saying, "Attending service academies opens many doors." I'm not discounting the academy experience, and I hope my story doesn't discourage other golden handshake grads. My case is truly...rare.
For privacy purposes, I'll keep my grad year vague (202x). Like the other golden handshake recipients, I was fortunate enough to receive many mentorships. Due to various reasons, I chose to go back to school and complete my master's in STEM. Soon after, I took roughly an additional year chasing after a high-risk career dream. I knew well ahead that I was gambling my life away, but I'm a "give it my all" type of person. So I don't regret my decision! While that journey didn't result in what I expected, I still amounted to some accomplishments, and I'm thankful for the lessons I've gained. My family has supported me thus far; however, I feel like my entire post-academy life sets me as an outlier. Recently, I was told that my surprisingly ongoing med board faced some discrepancies, and the academy is working on correcting the issue. Which means I don't have my DD214. Currently, I'm part of a tech training program sponsored by one of the FAANG companies. Even so, a career there isn't guaranteed. As my email inbox continues to be flooded with job rejection emails, I'm beginning to lose hope. I did the schooling, completed internships, got a professional certificate, did the resume rewrites/ counseling, scoured the available resources for service members, attended SACC, etc. Despite relentlessly pursuing various professional skills to make myself appear more appealing in the job market, I struggle to land a career opportunity. I'm already ashamed of not commissioning, and I'm even more disappointed in myself. I'm not asking for pity. I know life has its ebbs and flows, and we all have our destined narratives to follow. I want to know how else to optimize my situation. What are others doing that I'm not? How can I improve myself? What am I lacking? I would greatly appreciate any guidance. Thank you in advance for reading this post.
For privacy purposes, I'll keep my grad year vague (202x). Like the other golden handshake recipients, I was fortunate enough to receive many mentorships. Due to various reasons, I chose to go back to school and complete my master's in STEM. Soon after, I took roughly an additional year chasing after a high-risk career dream. I knew well ahead that I was gambling my life away, but I'm a "give it my all" type of person. So I don't regret my decision! While that journey didn't result in what I expected, I still amounted to some accomplishments, and I'm thankful for the lessons I've gained. My family has supported me thus far; however, I feel like my entire post-academy life sets me as an outlier. Recently, I was told that my surprisingly ongoing med board faced some discrepancies, and the academy is working on correcting the issue. Which means I don't have my DD214. Currently, I'm part of a tech training program sponsored by one of the FAANG companies. Even so, a career there isn't guaranteed. As my email inbox continues to be flooded with job rejection emails, I'm beginning to lose hope. I did the schooling, completed internships, got a professional certificate, did the resume rewrites/ counseling, scoured the available resources for service members, attended SACC, etc. Despite relentlessly pursuing various professional skills to make myself appear more appealing in the job market, I struggle to land a career opportunity. I'm already ashamed of not commissioning, and I'm even more disappointed in myself. I'm not asking for pity. I know life has its ebbs and flows, and we all have our destined narratives to follow. I want to know how else to optimize my situation. What are others doing that I'm not? How can I improve myself? What am I lacking? I would greatly appreciate any guidance. Thank you in advance for reading this post.